Would this bother you?

[Mary]

I saw my friend last week. SHe asked me to loan her $40 and promised to pay me back on Nov.1 when she got her check. I told her I needed to keep my money cuz I made promises to my child and was taking him shopping and could not wait. She said ok and all was fine. Well Nov. 1st her phone was shut off and I have not been able to reach her since then and she has NOT called me. However she is on facebook . I can't message her there cuz she blocked me a while back once she said she was afraid her ex boyfriend would find her thru me on facebook??? Whatever.
Good thing I did not loan her the money since I have NOT been able to reach her!!! Is all of this ....weird tho?? What are your first thoughts?
I can't see her from my account of Facebook but my friend says she is on there everyday..so I know she's ok.