Why does he do this to me?

[secretsmile]

A work collague acts differently towards me compared to other staff members.

There has been times when he has stared at me, (into my eyes) and when I have tried to break the stare, he still holds the stare. He won't accept me as a friend on facebook, even though he his friends with everyone we work with. When I have confided in a work friend who knows us both, she thinks its not like him to behave like this. He once gave me a compliment infront on everyone (which came out of the blue and was quite random).

I have personally sent him a message explaining how his behaviour has made me feel etc, but he never responded.

Bumping into him has become awkward and because he has an easy going friendly attitude/banter with everyone else and not me, it makes me feel hurt.

He knows I am married, but doesn't know I am just about to separate. I didn't fancy him when all this started happening, but I now fancy him after spending time trying to figure him out.