Why would a soon-to-be ex-husband be so mad if he was the one who left?

[HiThere]

Whoa! Your story is practically identical to mine. My bastard husband cheated on me and abandoned me for the other woman. This was over a year ago and we are now officially divorced. But in that time he has made it a point to stay in contact with me. He is still with the other woman and they act all lovey dovey, but at the same time he also stirs up trouble with me just to hurt me. I was wondering the same thing as you: what's all his hostility for when HE is the one who left??? People have told me it's his guilt turned outward toward ME. I finally had enough last week and changed my email and blocked his phone. I think he is a pathetic, low-life coward, and sounds like your husband is the same. He will regret screwing things up with you at some point and when he crawls back, do all women a favor and SLAM the door in his crappy face!