How to get over my first ever girlfriend please answer and help me!!!!?

[Missymumu]

I think things seem a whole lot worse than they really are. When you're in your twenties, you're going to look back at this and shake your head at the follies of your youth.

Usually, I would go into a big spiel about that, and give you no helpful advice about your situation. However, I'm beginning to realize that until you've reached an age where you can really see the things I'm saying, you're just going to get mad at me. So I'm trying a different approach here. I'm going to be helpful.

If you really do have feelings for Bai, then you'll cut all ties to your old girlfriend. You'll unfriend her, un follow her, do whatever on your social networks, and then tell her to her face to leave you alone. That you don't want to play her games anymore, and that you're with Bai now. It's going to hurt, but if you really do care about Bai, then you'll know that's what you gotta do. However, if you find yourself unable to cut all contact with this Emma girl, then you're not over her and therefore are being unfair to Bai. No girl wants to be second fiddle to someone else. You could, I suppose, try talking to Emma and still try to be friends with her, but you've got to lay down the law. You've got to tell her it's over, and if you're unprepared to do that, then you've got to go the other way.

I'm sorry if you wanted an easy fix, but there really isn't one in this situation. Liked the Sweeney Todd reference, BTW.