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why would my ex join all the same Facebook groups as me, and then delete them when I tell him I know?
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11-09-2012, 12:05 PM
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why would my ex join all the same Facebook groups as me, and then delete them when I tell him I know?
I was seeing this guy for a year and then we split. He never seemed to be able to leave me alone although he wasn't making any moves to get back with me. A lot of it rested on his not "trusting" me.
Last month I saw him around a lot more and he was driving around near my office. Now I know he has to be there for HIS work BUT this time he was slowing down and leaning out of the window. In the past he has driven past me & not stopped or looked. I notice because I am naturally very observant. FIVE times he stopped and parked up and leaned out of his window as I walked to the station but he never SAID anything. The 6th time I finally went up to him and said "hey, how are you, stranger?" One of the first things he said was "why aren't you on Facebook?" I said I was but it was private. He then admitted to Googling me to try and see where I was at. (he failed as there's nothing on me) I saw him again 3 weeks ago, and told him I'd part-open my FB so he could see what I was up to. (there's very little info except for my Groups) The next week I noticed HE has joined 10 of my groups. Some are so obscure and only have 2 or 3 members, which is how I noticed. He then found me again and told me he wanted to maybe give us another try. I said we'd meet next week and talk further. When we met, he said he "did not mean" what he said. I was hurt and baffled. I wrote him a goodbye letter, and mentioned that I was leaving my job as I can't face seeing him driving around all the time. I also said I knew he was on my FB groups. I checked my groups just now and he's removed himself from all of them, so I guess by now he's got my note. Should I take this as a final goodbye from him? Now he knows I know he was on my groups, so him removing himself is quite a point, right? I know he is no good but it is really hard getting over someone who contacts me every now and then, probably when life is bad for him. In short, I know he is using me but I can't help still loving him and talking to him whenever he wants. We're both 36. NB I get that FB is childish but that is the only way he thinks he can "watch" me, short of driving past me. Ads |
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why would my ex join all the same Facebook groups as me, and then delete them when I tell him I know? - Shelly - 11-09-2012 12:05 PM
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