I think I'm being a bad friend?

[Nyla]

I would probably cancel out #1. They know you are half white and have already accepted you. I'm sure they are okay with white girls as well. If not, that's a whole other problem to deal with later.

People grow apart and that's just a part of life. You do need to do things with your friends to stay close with them. Start going out and doing some things so they know you still want to be with them. No one likes to feel rejected and that may be how they feel up until now. Its your job to change that. Also, let them know that you are upset that you can't sit with them at lunch.

Its always nice to have a well-rounded group of friends and it looks like you do. You are very fortunate.