Being haunted by my past.?

[Tartersauce]

Message this guy, "If we were married, you'd be telling someone else you loved them. I feel horrible for your wife. I should never have bothered with you once you two were together, and since I stopped, I found a wonderful MAN who knows how to be faithful. Leave me alone and tell your wife she has nothing (from me) to worry about."

If you're still talking to him, stop. You have a relationship and what goes around comes around -- you don't want some tramp causing problems for you a few years down the road.

If other people bring it up, say you understand why she's upset and wish you hadn't been involved with him after they started dating. Say something like, "It's too bad he can't just appreciate the good woman he has."

Say and do things that will make her feel like you aren't a threat. If you aren't willing to do those things, you are still your own problem.