A friend who doesn't invest in the Friendship?

[Fiji4u]

Man feels like I was writing this question. haa Since I am in the same boat, here is my suggestion:
I think anyone in this situation has a right to be upset, but after going through this for 4 years. It seems like friendships are just totally up to choices. Sometimes we feel like we are getting rejected when all they want is a little space. Although sometimes we are really getting rejected and can't tell the difference. I beleive if you this friendship then you should fight for it. Honestly speaking if you just say, "do you want to be friends" is not gonna work cause you are gonna have to tell by tone and facial expressions. Though if you were to say I feel as if we are drifting apart and I don't want to lose this friendship, I think she will give you more of a clear answer. Whether she wants to be friends or not. Either way, friendships are like candles they look pretty; they feel nice; you always want to protect them, but sometimes you just need to stand back and see if it can really withstand all the wind.
Hope that helps you a little bit. Best of luck.