Am I about to go on a date or just a friendly outing?

[Kellie W]

i'm not really sure... I had the same issue one time. A guy and I were going to a pizza place but only cuz we could think of anywhere else to get to know each other. The whole time I was trying to figure out if it was a date or not. I was expecting to pay for myself, but when he payed for me it was obvious it was a date. Coffee might be a little different, but I think that the same rule might apply. The best thing might just to be straight with him and as if this is a date or just a friendly outing. It might feel weird to ask, but I think that you will both be glad to be on the same page. hope this helps!