Guy dumped me becauseI wouldn't have sex?

[Adam]

Sorry to hear that. And yet, there is a good half that is not sorry but rather glad that you got away from such a bad bf. Firstly, you did nothing wrong here. Second, he was only diggin' you just for getting sex and that's it, that's all he saw ya as, so there's always the fact that even if you did give it up to him, he'd have left you anyway after a certain period of time for another.

This is also a good method for testing whether or not the guy you're with is genuine and cares for you; basically say you're going to hold sex off until marriage, then if the guy holds till that long or leaves before you do, then you'll have your answer. The bad ones like you were with will end up cutting loose real easily.

Also I noticed you said that you felt like he would hurt you and that he wasn't nice... there has to be more to do this for the inclination to happen, so you won't mind if I think that he's gone about threatening you at some point right? These thoughts wouldn't just come with the whole denial of sex and being dumped thing, so there's gotta be more to it.

At any rate, you're better off without that guy. All you can do is learn from this experience and push on ahead, and note that if a guy is impatient for sex, you're just being used for him. That's pretty much hands down right there.