ex text me about 12 year old daughters dirty text messages?

[Lynx]

If the phone is in your name you can require the company to send you a copy of all messages sent and received. They can also pull up any pics sent or received. They do charge you a service fee for this but since they are assisting with a crime (child porn) they will cooperate. Tell your daughter that if she won't talk you will get these texts and pics and send them to all the family. The embarrassment factor should get her to be honest with you.

My daughter knows that I will do exactly this if she puts anything on-line or takes pics or vids. I'm really trying to teach her to not leave evidence around to be used against her.