ex text me about 12 year old daughters dirty text messages?

[princess]

That is ridiculous. The "boy/man" is probably older than her and just taking advantage. I do not think you are over reacting or anything. It is very serious as she is only 12 and should not be talking to people like that. You need to have a serious word with her about what she is doing or ask your ex wife to, as she is a girl, and so that may be less awkward for your daughter. If you think it is carrying on after the talk then I think you should give the number to the police or make your daughter text him back saying "I am 12 so stop texting me" because the "boy/man" may not realise how young she is. You don't want to find out your daughter is sending dirty picture messages also so I would say you should act on it immediately. Good luck!