I'm shy - why do people dislike me and why would someone with 700 Facebook friends UNfriend me?

[blacknmild]

Honestly, there is no real answer to why he unfriended you. The next thing is that people dislike you, because they can. I am in High school (15y/o)and am not very "popular" if you know what I mean, and yes, some people don't like me, but honestly, I used to let it bother me, but I had and still have faith in God to bring me through trying times. My advice to you is that if you're a nice person and you haven't done anything wrong to anyone, then they should have no reason to dislike you, but if they do, just respect their choice and move on with your life. Don't suck up to them, and only be nice on a "Hello-Goodbye" basis. This sounds mean, but if they ignore you, just be nice (don't show that it bothers you) in the sense that you treat them equally as human beings. i understand that it hurts, when you are unfairly rejected for no reason at all, but in life that happens. Like I said, turn to God and He will bring the right people into your life. Try to gather some confidence within yourself so you can become much more self dependent. This way, you will have the inner strength to rely upon YOU for the inner confidence that you need. One way to overcome your shyness is to FORCE yourself to socialize. You don't have to be a social maniac, but just have small talk and be courteous. Find something that inspires you or builds up your self confidence, so you can feel proud of yourself and actually build up a sense of who you are as an individual. As for the nasty girls......at my school, there are a bunch of boys who don't like me for _____; basically, they don't have a good reason. What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger. Remember that when people talk mess about you, just look at their lives, and then it won't even matter. as for the man from the improv class, just let it go. It's up to you whether or not you ask him why he unfriended you, but I wouldn't, because that could send the message, that you WANT and DEPEND on him to make your day. If he's gone, then maybe it was for the better. Out of 700 people, I can't just see him actually deleting you. Also, be very careful about whom you call your friends. In this life, friends are truly rare. This doesn't mean that you have to be mean, but don't let your mental guard down, because you seem a little emotionally fragile right now. I hope this helps. if you have any questions, just message me. Don't hesitate. I don't have a facebook, but i am planning on getting one, because a lot of people from my school have it. Right now, I am on myspace, but yeah, like I said, just remember what I told you. If people talk about you now, there is a possibility tha they will talk about you until the day that you die. Life is not about waiting until the storm is over, but sometimes, you have to learn to dance in the rain.

I hope this helped.