How to chill with a guy you've never met before?

[Mike A]

I would recommend meeting him in a public place, with plenty of people around. I would also suggest using a friend as a spotter. Just have someone you know hang out in a nearby area, where they can see and hear what is going on.

I would meet him just for coffee, and have a signal in place so your friend knows if he or she needs to barge into the conversation. Let your parents know where you are going, and do a "Check In" on facebook if you have it, when you get there. Be sure you know where both the front and rear exits are, and don't leave your drink unattended or out of your sight.

It's likely that he's just an awkward teen whose looking to meet another awkward teen. And that you two might hit it off, but who knows? Worth a shot, as long as your smart about it.

I would not suggest telling your parents that you are meeting some boy from the internet. But make sure that they know where you are going, and how long you plan on being there for. That way, if something happens, they will know something is wrong sooner rather than later. Enable the feature where your phone can be tracked, and change your profile picture to one you snap just before you go out, so you have a recent photo. All of this sounds like a lot, but in a worst case scenario, it will all be useful information if someone tries and succeeds to nab you. If this sounds like a whole lot to do, welcome to internet dating!

And that's the best advice I can give.