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Emily · 03-28-2014, 05:31 PM

Ok so I met this guy and I kinda like him, and I feel like he's been flirting with me, too. We're becoming friends and we hang out at school sometimes. He's super nice and funny, and that's saying something coming from me, because I don't usually care for the personalities of most guys my age (16). So I added him on snapchat, and sent him a few snapchats. He replied to the first few, but I sent him one yesterday and this morning, he opened them, but never replied. I didn't send him a billion snapchats, I've only sent like 4. I asked him for his number a month or two ago, but he said he has limited texts so he couldn't give it to me. I know he snapchats a lot because he just seems like the type who would be into snapchat, but a lot of my other friends snapchat him; he just seems like the type to be heavily involved in snapchat. Do some people just not like to communicate electronically? Or is he annoyed with me? Please help me figure this out.

Ps- he does go out of his way to hang out at school. Like in gym he asks me to be his running partner, but he has a lot of friends so I don't know if he's trying to space out his time and spend time with all of us. We're both in Book Club, and he partners up with me for discussions. Was I annoying? Did I overdo it? What could be the issue? It's KILLING ME.

He replies to my facebook messages, but otherwise (electronically) he behaves as if I don't exist. Like on Instagram, snapchat, vine, texting, pintrest, twitter

He's so nice in person, but acts like he doesn't want any communication with me via social media. Why is this? I mean sometimes when I walk into class, he'll shout my name to get my attention, so I know he likes me (perhaps not romantically, but at least as a friend.) so why does he ignore the social media me. I told you every interaction between me and him so please tell me, am I doing something wrong?

Its just SO weird to be such good friends with someone in school, at sports and such, and then have them totally ignore you social-media wise. It makes me feel awkward.

He recently got a girlfriend, though. But he still flirts with me. Why is this?
Another thing is, my best friend told me that sometimes when a guy likes a girl (and likes to flirt with her), but he has a girlfriend, he tries to distance himself as much as possible from the girl, so that he doesn't get tempted. Could this be true?

Ok I THINK he flirts with me. But i don't know what flirting is, but I think the stuff he's doing is considered flirting.

LOOK, I know threw out that option of "maybe he doesn't like to communicate electronically." But please don't throw that back at me. If that's the case, then WHY does he snapchat and text other girls, other guys? I'm not saying I'm the only one he doesn't reply to , but I know he's the type of guy who's always on snapchat and always texting, always on some type of social media.
@swifty13: why do you say he sounds like a bit of a player?