Should I share show clothes with my friend?

[Crow]

you can share, just talk about exactly what you will share and for what show with lots of days in advance.

so, if you both wanted the same thing on the same day, then use your friend skills and say: "well, how about this time, you use it and next time we both want the same thing, I'll get first pick."

take turns on the favorite items in other words.

sharing can be fine....and making it work is easy if you are truly friends, then you simply take turns.

If you don't think you want to do it though, then if you are truly friends, she'll understand. If you're not really friends, then she'll get mad because she can't control you.

So, you can just say, "No thanks. I think it'll be too complicated."
A true friend would then say, "ok, cool. I just thought I'd ask."
and would then move on and forget about it. simple as that.