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My parents think i watch porn and do bad things and i really want to cry because i dont?
04-08-2014, 04:40 AM
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Hmmm...

Well, I relate to you in many ways:
I am Muslim, and my parents/siblings did not allow me to have a Facebook account, and I have a phone too. However, I have not created a Facebook page (although at first I wanted to in order to "fit in" with all of my "friends"). In response to your dilemma, and assuming that you still fear God and know that deep down you should have heeded your parents (even if they are annoying), I truly suggest you to one: calm down, two: pray to Allah SWT( to help you in this situation), three: DELETE your Facebook account and realize that true friends do not care or label you if you don't have an account. To be honest with you, my life has been PROTECTED on many levels by not having a Facebook account. For example, since I am a man, if I were to have my female classmates join my page or even male classmates who were acquaintances to me that were perverted (And treated women as derogatory pieces of meat), how would I look like??? Well, if you really are Muslim, I mean not those fake muslims who are used to create fear in the Sheeple's eyes and who are actually pawns of Shaitan and the Media...then you have to realize sister that indeed Facebook does this to you. It creates in you this fake ideology of fitting in and sharing soooo much personal information in order to make you just like those godless celebrities we see today. I do not know you and even if I did I cannot judge you as that power lies with God. However, I will pray for you InshaAllah, and hope everything works out.

And two more things:

YES, your parents have EVERY right to look into your things (if they didn't "bother" you they would not be very good parents, let alone intelligent ones).
"I feel like I want to die! I hate being in a religious family they're so over the top! Just because I had Facebook they are all hating me and its really awkward when im around them"....I can understand your frustration BUT know that this statement you said about hating your religion just shows how much you actually had this coming to you: Learn about Islam, the real Islam that Prophet Muhammad PBUH lived and taught by Allah's will, and you will swallow these immature words back down your throat, I promise.

This is a very long answer I know but at 19 years of age I have SOME wisdom, for real, on this topic due to similar circumstances and thoughts when I was immature lol.

Good luck!!!
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[] - Ilas - 04-08-2014, 04:19 AM
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