Christians what would you do ?

[Believer]

i was being nice i kinda loaned someone shoes they are about 150$ worth and i gave them earrings too he told me he will give me 30$ for them i was like ok because i didnt really need them it was in mint condition to i was trying help him out he said he would come back the next day with the money than afther that he stopped talking to me all together i messaged him on facebook saying wheres my shoes and he was like what you talking about you gave me them than i snapped on him and started getting mad and said why you trying take a advantage of what do you think this etc than he said ill give you back the shoes but than i said no you can keep the shoes -_____- what would you have done if you where me