Since it's okay for wives & girlfriends to snoop, how about if men do it too?

[Val]

If I have to hide something and/or lie then I don't deserve to be trusted. Yes, it's a privacy matter and maybe you should sit down with your girlfriend and ask her why she feels a need to do that? Is it because every man she's been with has cheated on her? Is it because your texting while your having dinner with her instead of engaging? Sounds like you've been with women that have taken it to the extreme and if a girlfriend is doing all those things it means she doesn't trust you and if she can't explain why she's doing that then what kind of relationship do you have? My husband has all my passwords and I don't lock my phone and I'm where I say I'm going to be so knock yourself out....try to find something. I love him enough to be an open book...there's no mystery here.