Why won’t this organizer give me her personal number but adds me on Facebook?

[Nancy]

On Facebook, she has more control over who sees her information. She also has control over when and if she responds to messages.

Because you are so obsessed with this issue and are trying to think of ways to chat with her via phone without her giving you her number, it seems like she made the right choice in NOT giving her number to you.

Respect her wishes and don't even try calling her. Message her on Facebook if you have questions. Right now, you're showing us all here that you have "stalker" tendencies.

You are also showing us that you are rude and inconsiderate not only for asking how you can bypass the no phone number thing, but by your insulting use of the word "retarded" when it comes to her reason not to give you the number. Again...I think she made a good decision when it comes to you.

Abide by her wishes.