I still love my ex boyfriend. Should i tell him?
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11-09-2012, 08:29 AM
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No, I don't think you should tell him. He obviously does not reciprocate your feelings...you're aware of this. Some huge outpouring of emotion on your part will just make him want to avoid you even further. Unfortunately we're conditioned by Hollywood to think some huge dramatic outpouring of love will convince someone they want to be with us. Actually, the opposite is true. That makes the person say "Yikes!!! Get me out of here!!!" The fact that you've tried to chat him up several times and his response was to give blunt one word answers...which is discouraging you without come out and saying...."Get lost!" says volumes. If he was interested in getting back together with you, he would have responded more favorably. If you were to flat out tell him you still love him, he will just think you're pathetic. It will not get him back. Instead of trying to think of ways to get him back you need instead to figure out ways to get over him. It can be really hard when you share classes and friends because many times the best way to get him out of you head is to have no contact with him. This isn't an option for you. The best thing you can do is limit contact with him. Try not to hang out with your friends when he's there, and try to sit in class where you can't see him. Ask if you can change your seat if that's not currently possible. Trust me, I've been there and I know you're hurting. I know you didn't like what I have to say, but it is the truth based on my experience. If a guy wants to come back to you, he has to come back on his own without you pursing him. The more you pursue him, the more he'll stay away.
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I still love my ex boyfriend. Should i tell him? - Lucy - 11-09-2012, 08:20 AM
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