what is a fake reason where I would HAVE to contact my birth mom (14 YEAR OLD GIRL PLEASE ANSWER)?

[BJG]

You need to find out what the circumstances of your adoption were. You then need to speak to your parents, the ones who raised you and discuss your desire to know your biological family history. Because you are a minor there may be terms of your adoption that bar your birth family from contacting you. If it was a closed adoption you would need to go through the adoption agency as well as work with your parents to get this information. Going about it your own way could be violating terms of your adoption.

This is a tricky situation, for one it will be delicate, the parents who raised you may not be comfortable with you seeking her out for any number of reasons. You also may want to prepare yourself for your biological family wanting NOTHING to do with you. They could very easily choose to not respond to any requests you make. Please be aware of this and do not go chasing these people down without your parents involvement.