my mom is ruining my friends?

[Ninja543]

It's hard with a parent like her, your in a helpless situation. If you can sneak the house phone and leave her a message real fast explaining everything. Talk to your school counselor about it.

Living in a freedom-less environment can make you want to do stupid things later in life when you move out, just because you weren't able to do anything, so please try not to let this get to you, just remind yourself that someday you'll move out, and she wont control you.