does it look " needy/desperate " to snap a guy one picture in a bra?

[jhtydf5768]

If you are sending a guy nude/suggestive pictures then be aware of the risks of releasing such pictures. Once it's out of your hands you can't control what happens to it and where it goes. Sometimes guys will share pictures like this with their friends, it gets around social circles, it can come back to haunt you on facebook, twitter. Etc.

These are just natural risks with the way social media is today. That doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with taking suggestive pictures of yourself. Just know the risk and be ready to accept the "worst." (depending on how much you care, the "worst" case scenario may not even bother you that much.) If you are cool with taking a picture like that of yourself and you see it as no big deal, and don't care if other people see it, then that is great. Go ahead and take your picture and share it if you like.

Be aware of your own feelings though. Make sure you are 100% comfortable, that you're not sending this picture with the expectation of getting something in return (you don't want to be disappointed or feel desperate for something) and make sure you are 100% comfortable with the "worst" case scenario. You can take some precautions against that scenario by cutting our your face or any distinguishing features or backgrounds. If you don't want it linked to you or your phone number you could send it from online or another phone or even just print it and give it to him. This makes it easier for relative anonymity or deniability if need be.

Good luck