He has taken my self esteem from me by consistently cheating and lying? He has also met someone new after 4 weeks? I hav

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Own your part in this or you will never heal or learn from this and continue to repeat the pattern.

You chose him and stayed with him while he lied and cheated. After the first time he cheated/lied you should have been gone.

You chose to pay for things, after the first time you could have stopped. You chose to keep doing this.

Take responsibility and learn from this so that you will do better and choose better next time.

We all have close encounters with awful people, we learn, and then get them out of our lives quickly.

I can guarantee you a life of misery if you continue with the victim mentality you have adopted.