He has taken my self esteem from me by consistently cheating and lying? He has also met someone new after 4 weeks? I hav

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Your probably hurt because you actually cared about him, and he just toyed with your emotions and took you for granted, but like K8 said own your part in this. You allowed him to hurt your over and over again. You ignored the red flags, and kept trying to paint another picture of him, when he was showing the real him all along.

Perhaps delete your social networks for awhile, and block him from your phone, so when he gets bored with the other girl you wont hear from him.
You need to get back to loving you and knowing and valuing your self worth. People only continue to hurt you as much as you allow. This guy is toxic, and is hindering your growth as a woman. He is also not the guy for you. The guy for you will uplift you and encourage you to be a better person. He will not feed your insecurities, he will help put them at rest.

But first you must be happy worth your self. know that you are worth meeting a great guy, that loves you. Lift up your self esteem, and be confident. If you don't know your self worth , people in general will walk all over you. So don't worry about him focus on yourself for a while. Be around people that make you feel good about yourself, and are uplifting.

Also fyi, he took you to London, and treated you poorly shortly after, now he is taking this other girl London.......do you know how that will end. this is routine, more than likely he does this to almost all the girls he meets. And for future reference, any guy that is trying to whoo you and going out of his way to impress you, by extravagant gifts and vacations more than likely is up to no good, and has a hidden agenda. Next time don't fall for it to soon, pay attention to what he does NOT what he says. And make sure the good behavior is consistent for at least 6 months to a year. Usually some people are just putting on the show in the beginning of a relationship, and not being their true self.