He has taken my self esteem from me by consistently cheating and lying? He has also met someone new after 4 weeks? I hav

[Liz]

You are feeling upset and hurt because deep down inside you know your ex could have never treated you the way he did if you hadn't allowed him to. We teach people how to treat us by showing them what we will and will not tolerate. You acted like a doormat with your ex for far too long, so it's not really surprising he spent so much time walking all over you. You should get some counselling to build up your self-esteem.