Facebook privacy !! tags of photos ..?

[Feloslaw]

Hi,
Does anyone know how to change my privacy on facebook whenever someone tag me on photos or put something on my profile so that first i have to confirm and accept these things before they appear in public ..
@ Rehan - i just did like that but as i can understand then the tagged photos which i'm tagged in cannot be seen from my friends .. all i need is that it's like i give a permission so if someone tagged me in a photo and i would like that it can be shown in public i will accept that but if someone tag me in a photo and i don't wish that photo will be shown in public i don't accept that. in other words the problem is that till i open facebook and there will be a photo which i'm tagged in and i don't want that my friends see that photo, my friends can see that till i log in to facebook...