How to let go, I need to move on. I'll answer your's?

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Weather she is purposely leading you on or not is insignificant she is being hurtful and thats not healthy for you. When I went through something like this the question i asked myself that helped me feel allot better was "Think of how much you miss your ex, now ask yourself what percentage of those feelings are because you actually miss them and what percentage of those feelings are because your afraid of being alone" Your not selfish for not wanting her in you life because shes hurtful if I were you I would stop hanging out with her to prevent yourself from being hurt more. Remember you NEED to like/love people that care for you just as much as you care for them, you deserve to be treated with respect.