*Should I continue with my marriage*?

[Tzapporah J]

It is a hard situation BUT he did forgive you for what you did, and once someone forgives the other person theres no bringing it up you are agreeing to work things out no matter what happened thats part of forgiving. He has no excuse I think he is using that reason against you because he feels he can but you said you werent even together at the time and he forgave you he has no real reason to do this behind your back and seek her out. I suggest time apart he obviously isnt ready to try again and he needs to be a man and tell you whats really going on first of al even if he wanted "Advice " he shouldnt be telling anyone else yalls business thats between you and him not you him and her, let him know your not gonna put up with it. Good luck