Am I lesbian or just bi? Complicated situation. Please help!!?

[ashley]

Just by reading this, it looks like you are a lesbian. I have never had a boyfriend. I know that some boys liked me in the past, but I kept friend zoning them (note: it didn't help that my dad was strict about me dating boys). I could not figure out why I couldn't see them as more than just friends. I just went through the same predicament that you described last month and I realized that no matter how much I look at boys, I can't feel attracted to them. Maybe as a friend, but never more. I have also had lesbian dreams and I really liked them. So I just told myself that I'm probably gay. The thing was, I thought I was straight, not bi, so it was kind of a stretch for me, but in the end, it's alright. I am 17, never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend, and I'm gay. I hope this helps!