Should i confront my brother about this?

[M]

Talking crap on his flesh and blood was low,and exaggerating your father's illness is even worse. It sounds to me like he's craving sympathy and has no problem with lying to get it. Did he message this to just the one person,or more than one? It sounds to me like he just sent it to this girl. Is he one of those pathetic dudes who's trying to get with a girl by using sympathy? Not only does that make him a scum,but also a loser because that game NEVER works.

What to do? I'd wait until the next time you two are together. I'd get him alone and tell him that 1) You lost some respect for him because he lies,and lies about AWFUL things. 2) Only losers and needy kitten-boys crave excessive sympathy. 3) He hurt you by saying all those terrible things,because you're supposed to be somebody he loves,as is your dad. After you drop this on him,the ball is in his court. Listen to what he says,and take it from there. Good luck.