How do I change the order of my family on Facebook? Also, some of their profile pics don't show?

[Jessie Love]

I've just been onto my family list on my fb profile and I can't find a way of changing the order of family members.
But I know on my friends list, that randomly changes order sometimes, so maybe the family list doesn't change and you can't specifically set it.

And to answer your second question:- When you try and list someone as a family member, they get an email/notification saying "....... wants to list you as family" or something along those lines, so they have to confirm it first.
Before my cousin confirmed my request as family on facebook, he just had the standard grey and white icon next to his name in my family list. So it could be because of this reason for you.

Hope this helped