What do you think about a mother that keeps her children from seeing their father , until the child is.......?

[Summer]

I think a lot of women do that because their relationship with that man did not work out so they feel as if the only way they can fully move on is if they lose all contact...Personally I believe if the child isn't in any harm they should be allowed to at least visit...But if I were them I would think more reasonably because when their children reaches their teenage years or young adulthood, they start to look for answers, and most feel like they need closure in order to move forward in life.