The saddest goodbye, help me out wih relationship problems?

[kat]

I'm sorry he was so distant and cold. It sounds like you might have had a nice relationship up until that point.

You shouldn't try to find him. I know this sounds like a mean thing to say, you care about him and you want to help him. But he doesn't want your help, if he did he would have talked to you about where he was going and what he was doing. If he really cared about you he would have told you up front where he was going. He hasn't been in touch with you which means he isn't thinking about how you're doing, or how he made you feel by disappearing like that.

It sounds to me like he was trying to break up with you by blaming 'having to leave' rather than facing whatever the real reason was. This isn't fair to you and was a very selfish move on his part.

You should let him go and move on. It will take a lot of time and it will hurt for a while. But it gets better, and then one day you'll realize it was for the best. He could be mixed up in all kinds of stuff, and you don't need that trouble in your life.

good luck.