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Will I eventually grow out of my shell? PLEASE HELP! Thanks. You get 5 points for best answer!?
10-02-2012, 08:02 PM
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Well I've been pretty shy throughout high school as well (just graduated) and it's hard for me to talk to people too. When someone says "Hi" though all you have to do is say "Hi" back. It may be hard at first but I promise it will get easier. They may strike up conversations with you, but don't worry most people are good at keeping them up because most people enjoy talking. So then you will get better at having regular conversations with people too. Smile It's a good idea to get a new look in college if you want, sometimes it can kind of help you mentally re-invent yourself. Just remember, don't completely try to be someone you really are NOT. As for breaking out of your shell in college, join clubs and talk to people in your classes. Just be open to meeting people and making new friends. EVERYONE is new in college, so they will all feel the same as you! Everyone is making new friends so it's the perfect opportunity to get more socially involved. As for now, like I said just try to interact a little more and the more you do it, the more naturally it will come. Good luck and I hope I helped!!
Also, if you aren't completely opposed...taking a theatre class my Junior year really opened me up. EVERYONE looks stupid at some point in that class and they all understand how hard you are trying and how hard it can be to get up on stage. They won't judge you but will allow you to open up and be more outgoing without feeling judged. Just a thought for you...if you are completely terrified to pieces at the idea and would never want to try it EVER, you don't have to! It can help, but I know firsthand how hard it can be to do things that terrify you socially. Just join some clubs, talk to people and branch out. Don't worry, I've been breaking out of my shell over the past couple years and you will too! Smile

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