Do you think I am a Tomboy ?

[Katherine]

(I am a 14 year old girl) Well I used to mainly wear mens t shirts because I didn't like the sleeves on girl's t shirts, but I wore girls jeans and capris or knee length shorts with sneakers or flips flops. I recently started wearing more girly tops. I hang out with girls mainly because I get really nervous and shy around guys. I don't wear jewelry or makeup besides nail polish, My ears aren't pierced. My hair is wavy and medium length though i don't do much with it and it's a little frizzy. I have social anxiety and low self esteem. I like anime, video games, stuff like star wars and drawing. I guess I'm kind of a geek. But I recently found out that all of my good friends that like the same stuff as me are lesbians. Now I'm even more self conscious and try to seem more girly so people do not think I am lesbian. I like guys, though I am not that boy crazy like most girls at my school. I only wear dresses or skirts on special occasions and when I do I wear shorts underneath. I know I shouldn't care what people think but I do very much and I am getting really bothered by this and haven't been acting like myself as much because I think I might have HOCD and fear that I might actually be Bisexual but I really don't know. Advice please?