Should I get him out of my life, or keep him 10 POINTS!?

[Big Lance!]

Hes a playa! besides your only 16 and your both in different phases of life, hes out living as an adult and your living at home with parents, turn the tables here... imagine if you had a boyfriend that was 13yrs.... see what i mean. sorry for sounding negative but im older and can see the inherent huge difference in not so much age but maturity. that doesnt mean that your immature or he is it just means that your both in different phases of life. why worry about one dude when your gonna meet a million in the next years to come. you dont wanna be stuck on one guy at age 16 as you have a whole life ahead. you are selling yourself WAY short as he doesnt even remember what you both had planned together ie. movies. the reason hes like that is because hes not totally focused on JUST YOU as much as you are on JUST HIM. get my drift? you sound like a nice girl im glad you told the dude NO as hes probably fast as ever with whoever! this is just pure infatuation but your obviously smarter than his games, which is why you said no! and your asking us online what you should do which means your instincts already tell you to flush him. you really sound wise about things now all you gotta do is do is flush him and your free from the games! you said you have been stuck on him for 8mos? it doesnt sound like hes stuck on anybody for one minute. if he cant remember simple plans ahead of time then thats because his mind is not mature enough to have consideratioin for you or really anybody in his world. and thats really how alot of 19yr olds as you can see but im impressed that your smart enough to realize what his game is and not to be a pawn in it. trust me when your 19 you wont be thinkin about him!

best of luck!