Should i tell her the truth? (Zoosk)?

[anthony h]

Yes you should tell her. Theres no way you can keep this up forever. Keep talking to her though. Casually introduce the topic of her dating someone younger than her, if she would or if she has. A lie really is no way to start a relationship but there may be hope for you yet as you have managed to stir up feelings of love and women tend to be illogical creatures (hopefully shes one of them); this is where you will use this to your advantage. Before you drop the bomb, a day or 2 before you need to be as sweet as possible. Send her an ecard (123greetings.com). Tell her shes beautiful, you love her, etc. You also need to portray that you have a really mature personality and you have ambitions if you havent already portrayed that.

Now you tell her. Say you have something to tell her, send her your real pic. THE BEST ONE! Tell her thats really you, tell her that your really 9 years her junior. Tell her some cliche stuff lik you had no intentions of tricking her, and that at first it was just fun for you but eventually you started to think about her more, and that she slowly became the main reason you wake up every morning with a smile on your face. But you started to fear that she would stop talking to you if she knew the truth so you foolishly continued the lie. Apologize you ass off and see what she does. Tell her you dont blame her for not talking to you anymore and no matter if she does your grateful for the happiness she gave you.

If she stops talking to you, leave her alone for a day or so. Then message her saying your light is gone and you feel cold and dark and that you need her. Say that love should not have an age issue and that your almost 18 so it shouldn't be a big deal if we were so in love. Say you will never lie to her again. Good luck.