Why does an ex keep blocking and unblocking me on facebook?

[AnonM]

If it's his first relationship that he's trying to get over, he probably needs some time. If someone invests a lot of time/love/dedication to a relationship, it's not something that he/she can just suddenly drop. Especially since you're both in your 30s, so it probably meant he really thought you were "the one". The sudden breakup may be devastating for him. Sometimes he'll wonder if it's okay to speak to you, but maybe he thought better of it? Or people sometimes remember the good times, and are just wondering what you're up to. Or maybe he's really angry that you two broke up, but then he still loves you so he's trying to forgive and see how to approach you. Whatever the case, if it bothers you, you should take the initiative to block him and end all contact with him. Because he hadn't said anything yet, you don't know what his intentions are. And sometimes it takes more than a year to get over a relationship. And perhaps tell your mutual friends not share anything private with him. Good luck!