Is my wife attracted to her coworker?

[Marna]

I'm not going to tell you you are being foolish, nor am I going to tell you to watch out. What I am going to tell you is this ...


It might be nothing, it might be something. But your own insecurities might breath a spark to a flame. He's a jack. Don't crown him king. She married YOU. That height thing? It is of absolutely no importance:
The story of Mr and Mrs Happy
I know a man, yes, a MAN, just under a meter tall. I'll call him Mr Happy. (Yes Mr, I know you are reading this too.) When he walks into a room, he dominates that room. The kindest person you could ever meet. But he has a presence about him that nobody can miss. You know he is there long before you see him. Tease him about his height and you're in for sports. He takes the sting out of the teasing and turns it to funny. Good funny. He'd say: "I'm happily married to a beautifull brunette twice my height and halve my age. It captures the imagination. WHAT? I'm the tallest person in the room!"
This is an awesome couple. I wish you could see them. He calls her his queen. I asked him about it one day. Are they play acting to amuse other people? He said: No. Look at me. It used to bother me. I was a very angry little man. If a man wants to be a king he has to find himself a woman to be his queen,(what do you expect a queen to be?), Marry her, ... and the up-side is: you become her king (what does she expect a king to be?). Honest communication and truthfull consideration breeds respect, trust and security. Get on the same page. Compromise where compromise is due. And there you have it. Kings and Queens. Like cards, easy as pie, if you know the rules and keep them. Blissful!"

So, here it is: She IS your queen. Isn't she? Treat her as such. She married YOU (not some one else). Be her king. Stand tall. Re-capture the imagination. Like Mr Happy said: honest communication and truthfull consideration ...
All the best.