"Relationship" advice...?

[kieran27]

It doesnt sound like, other than mutual distrust for each other, you have very much in common.

Be fair, men arent as dumb as you think. Even if you got away clean with messing around, like you, he sensed something was wrong and not to take you but so seriously too. Dont be offended by that statement...you cant have it both ways. You cant say that just because you cheated on him in the past that...well thats the past. It still reflects you didnt really take him seriously to begin with.

Here is the thing, if you two arent a good match..and are seeking others...you can have all the good feelings and even love in the world for each other...youre gonna keep finding yourselves in someone elses arms until someone gets REALLY hurt. It may be you, it may be him.

But you cant have it both ways. You cant cheat and expect him to play fair while you figure out what you want, and then expect him to continue to play by your rules.

Im sorry if that sounds harsh, it is.