should I tell this married man's wife he slept with me while she was 9 months pregnant?

[Luckycream727]

You will be doing more harm to that woman and her marriage if you go ahead to reveal to her that you had sex with her husband. You did the first harm, albeit unintentionally as you have said, when you willingly had sex with her husband. I know it sounds somehow awful for a guy to go have sex with another woman just when the wife is almost ready to put to birth. But is that the major reason why you are feeling deeply sad and worried. When you stated “he has posts on Facebook telling his friends how amazing and incredible his wife is, yet he has been trying to get me to hook up with him for months, and finally succeeded”, you leave me with the impression that you knew he was a married man and that you didn’t have problem consenting to having sex with him, only that you are feeling angry that he still went ahead to have sex with you even when his wife was nine month pregnant! You are as guilty as the man in question, if truth be told. Except your intention is to wreck havoc on the woman’s marriage, I see no reason why you should tell her about her husband’s sexual affair with you. Please put the incident behind you and move on with your life.