if he isnt jealous does that mean hes not interested?

[b]

we've known each other over two years and been together as a couple over 17 mths. i get jealous when he talks to a female and he got mad when i thought he wanted to try to get close to a female at a place he boards at. but he wanted her to know what he was like before ppl started spreading lies about him. hes not liked by many ppl and has only one friend other than me. but she ignored him and blocked him from her facebook page (much to my relief) the thought of those two communicating made me squirm w jealousy.
im trying to calm it down but i feel twinges of insecurity and jealousy everytime he looks at porn or theres a nice looking female nearby. he says he loves me and he gets annoyed when i dont trust him even tho i say i do.
The thing is i dont think he gets jealous of me. i have made up stories about guys i have talked to or even told him about guys that have hit on me on facebook (which are true) but i get the lukewarm responses like mayb they are gaming friends or just saying hello.
it makes me wonder if i am not hot to him and if i ever will make him jealous.
he did have only one gf who cheated on him. idk if he was jealous w her.
i would like him to be a little jealous i mean i have even played up a lot past encounters to try to get a reaction. why doesnt he react? is he losing interest me? does he not care?

[Mark]

Trying to make someone jealous can be a dangerous game... What if you embellish something and then he says 'OK then, let ends things..' How would you feel? can you say 'I made it up to make you jealous...'? He may never trust you again.

How about you try positive / constructive things in your relationship instead...?

[Raquel]

Ok this was me too and trust me when i say this..everything u are doing is childish.(not trying to be mean) Dont make him jealous why would u want to make him worry about losing u. Think how it made u feel when he talked to other girls. You want to purposely make him have those feelings too? thats not really cool. Some times guys are not jealous because they are not insecure about them selves. they know u are with them and them only. I use to get upset that my boyfriend would not get jealous overme too. and this is how he explained it. "I dont care if other guys hit on you. Because at the end of the day u are mine and u come home to me. Yeah they can look and say stuff but I can touch you and kiss you and actually be with you. why would i be jealous of them. Im confident in my self that I dont need to worry about other men."
That right there is a man. Jealousy is just a stupid imature feeling that wastes your time making u worry about things that dont even matter. Next time a girl is talking to your man you should be proud cuz that hot piece of meat shes trying to talk to is yours. Him not being jealous dosent mean he dosent love you or care about you. Hes just confident