my boyfriend is mad I have more facebook friends than him?

[LEINA V]

First, if you cheated on him once, you WILL cheat on him again! This is no joke, you need to be honest with him about all the guys on your facebook page. Unless you personally know that many guys then cool, but those who you don't know, come on, what is the reason for having so many guys on your page? You're obviously flirting with at least 1/2 of them.

He has trust issues with you. Do you think that it will happen overnight that everything will be fine and dandy and he'll go back to his old ways with you. You hurt him. Remember that. You want this guy in your life, but what have you done to change for the better? Make a list of everything you've done to make him believe this relationship will actually work. When you make that list, compare it to a list that you did before you cheated on him. They're the same if not a little changed...make the necessary changes in yourself if you want this to work, if not, he will never 100% trust you. And in that case, you need to leave him alone so he can find someone else who can and will treat him a whole lot better.

[dasha1866]

drop him trust me been there and done it. 43 yr old woman. he's jealous. it will get worse. went through that in my 20's. tell him it's over get lost.

[Jonathan]

I presume he was not jealous before. It maybe that he understands that Facebook is not real life and not to be taken seriously in normal circumstances, but he's haunted by feelings of betrayal and sees internet phantoms where there are none. You could try deleting your account but he may just switch his focus onto the male friends you have in real life and become controlling. At some point he has to forgive you for your past mistake or let you go....

[Danimal]

Dump him. If he get's this mad over Facebook, imagine what will happen when he has a legit reason to be mad.