Am I overreacting to this?

[Jess]

I started talking to this guy a few weeks ago. We've been friends but we got flirty and went out on a date. He paid for me, held my hand, made out, walked me home and texted right after.

Last night he texted at night and he usually texts in the morning... He also stopped replying last night (I figured bc he has work today) but I saw him on Instagram?

He's really sweet but I don't want to get hurt. I like him a lot. Help?

[Amz]

Don't worry that he stopped replying. It could just mean he ran of things to say.

Don't text him for a day or two and then text him first. That way he'll know you are interested in him, too.

[grrandram]

You're already going to get hurt because he didn't carry the text messaging on into the early hours of the morning? It's not like he wasn't replying. You said he stopped replying, which means he was texting with you. So if he stopped, that would mean he was done. He didn't have more to say. What the big dilemma? You're not overreacting yet. You haven't reacted yet have you? You ARE over thinking it and even seem to be needy and a little obsessive. You're already trying to put him in a box. Thinking that you know who he is and what he will do. You think you're figuring him out. Why else would you say he texted you last night, but add he usually texts in the morning. You're already having expectations from him. You expect him to text you in the morning now. So what if you saw him on Instagram? What does that mean? What does it have to do with you? He can't go on Instagram unless he tells you? Or he has to text you back before he goes on? Your insecurity and neediness might push guys away. if you don't want to get hurt, then rein it back a little bit.