Why don't guys talk to me?

[swizzle jezz]

guys in your grade go for girls who look like they are showing off buy wearing bra's and shirts to make their boobs look bigger and tight fittin jeans or yoga pants to show off ass. so if you don't do that then that might be the reason. why they boys like that, because they wanna get pu$sy. they don't really start lookin for nice girls until they are about in about 11th grade. unless they are really nice.. but don't dress too slutty if you do dress different...or maybe you just dress too slutty right now

[tdcc_luvr]

maybe theyre afraid to approach you because theyre scared, ik i have the same problem. people say i look like a mean person, but im really not. its hard for me to approach people so i just avoid ppl i dont know, especially if theyre prettier/to hot for me lol. i would say just be a little more outgoing, but dont be an attention wh0re

help me plz?

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[petiteghost569]

I know, I know... guys are supposed to see something they like, then swagger over and try to impress it, right? That's how it always is on TV and in the books, right?

Wrong. I'm a guy, and we're actually not like that. We try to act like that, we'd really like to be that, but that's not how we are. We know we can't just kick down a door, rescue you from a dragon and ride off with you on our white steed, because it isn't that easy. We'd like it if it was, but we don't know where to find a dragon.

Here's the deal, we're just as shy as you are. Have you walked up to any guys out of the blue, introduced yourself and started up a conversation? No? Why not? Exactly, and the guys have the same problem. We're shy. Our hearts are just as fragile as yours, we don't know what to do or say either, and we're deathly afraid of rejection. Nobody said this stuff was easy.

So what you do is break the ice a little and take control. Not all at once, no need to get crazy with it, just little by little. Baby steps, if you will.

First, eye contact: Use those beautiful peepers of yours to lock eyes with a guy or two just for a second. Then maybe two seconds, but only when you're ready.

Next, smile: Just a little natural friendly smile is all you need, but it says volumes. People react very well to smiles. Start small, as small as you want, but do it.

Next, say hi: This is a big one, so again wait until you're ready. But it works. You're now generating attention bigtime.

There's more after that, like talking, but don't worry about that yet. Start with the small stuff and focus on it, and it'll make the other stuff much easier when you get there.

Finally, DON'T listen to other girls! They'll tell you to play with your hair and use hints, and they're dead wrong. That stuff works on girls, but not us. We don't even see that subtle stuff, and even if we see it we don't understand it. You need to be as direct as possible with us. And for pete's sake, don't play hard-to-get because that never works. We think like predators, and predators never chase what they can't (or even probably can't) catch.

I would wish you luck with this. But if you follow my advice, you won't need luck.