Need advice on what to about my friend?

[Dave]

Me and my friend (female) are very close, however over the past year our friendship has taken a little down hill slide due to many factors within in both of our lives (nothing we have done to each other) and this is why we haven’t been as close as previous years. Anyway she sent me an invite to her birthday on facebook but didn’t send me the address! I sent her several texts and calls but she never contacted me back. Yet everybody else she invited I presumed went. Fast forward a couple of days and I called her for her actual birthday and wished her happy birthday on facebook and still no reply (liked everyone else congrats except mine). I sent her a detailed message on facebook asking her to please contact me and expressed my feelings to her as a friend and told her I cant fix the problem If I don’t know what I have done and said it will take two of us to make amends. I told her how important she was to me and how many good times we have had together, I also mentioned that at times I thought we would make a good couple (I didn’t confess any love and never have). I was very hostile and didn’t say anything bad about her or the situation. She replied and said I will get back to you soon with a detailed reply… Fast-forward two weeks and I still have no reply! Now she is making me angry and frustrated! What should I do? she can never confront her problems (this is why im frustrated with her). Should I call her this time? If she truly cared wouldn’t she reply quickly? Why would she need so long to reply?

[?]

I think you should just forget about her. I know you don't want to cause you've been friends for sooo long, BUT you've done everything to try to repair your friendship and she just doesn't seem interested in doing the same. She's not worth your time. Don't try to contact her anymore, she's heard from you enough & now its up to her to decide if she wants to talk to you. But don't wait on her, just move on....