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How do I talk to my crush?(no one answering)?
02-19-2014, 12:45 PM
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How do I talk to my crush?(no one answering)?
Okay so this may be a little long, but it would totally be appreciated if you read it, haha...

On November 1st I was in a new school. In my first class of the day, I knew no one and sat alone. This girl I like, lets call her Nora(not her real name). Nora, asked me if i'd like to sit with her and her friend. I said "Umm sure." Nora was very obviously flirting with me(unless I have the wrong idea of what flirting is. She was smiling at me, staring at me(she seriously was talking to her friend a little bit, but would not take her eyes off of me), she drew hearts and smiley faces on my work, and she kept asking me a bunch of questions bout myself. She is the only other freshman in the class to. Anyways, I overheard her mention to her friend that she was breaking it off with her boyfriend. Her and I talked for a while and we were compatible on many levels! After that class I had to go to one she wasn't in so we didn't talk after that. I started liking her though and became shy around her. A few days later, she approaches me with the biggest, sweetest smile. She saw I was sitting alone and I didn't know many people because i'm a little shy, plus I was new. My heart lept into my stomach. She offered to sit with me, but like an idiot, my brain shut down, and I said "I'm the silent alone type of guy, but thanks anyway!"(I didn't wanna seem cowardly or loser-ish, but now I know I wouldn't have seemed that way) She walked away and went and joined her friends. A few days later I see her again, she pays me another sweet smile and asks if I can join her at lunch. Her table was full so I couldn't. This girl(not Nora) at the table had a giant bookbag right where I wanted to sit, so I nicely said "Hi, can you please put your bookbag on the floor, so I can sit here?". The girl sassed me like a *****, but I stayed calm and cool and smiled and said, "Well, okay then...." And I said bye to my crush. That was my last interaction with my crush. I feel like it is weird between us and idk how to talk to her again. She always has at least one friend around so me being kinda shy, that makes it more awkward for me. I sometimes catch her looking at me, but idk what to do. I'm lost..... I don't do any social media and refuse to get into all that so that's outta the question. This winter break, I feel like will help me to re-emerge next semester, but idk what to do. Anyways thanks for reading this, you are super, and thanks in advance if you answer!

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02-19-2014, 12:46 PM
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This is why nobody is answering..

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02-19-2014, 12:50 PM
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Be a little more assertive. She likes you, and is trying to find an opportunity to get to know you, to be with you. Invite her to sit with you during lunch. Take the initiative. If you come across the same situation with the book bag, maybe ask if the bag is better as a friend than a person. Be witty, be decisive, and don't be overtly mean.
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02-19-2014, 12:58 PM
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The number one thing you can do is stay confident. If you really like this girl, don&#x27;t just give up. Try to show her that you have a life of your own and try to make friends. Also, try to get on the good side of her friends. Get to know her and then ask her out. The worst she can do is tell you that she just wants to be friends, but then you&#x27;ll know the truth. If you just give up and don&#x27;t ask her out, you&#x27;ll just be left wondering down the road what could have happened.take the initiative, go for it.
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02-19-2014, 01:06 PM
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I dont really know what to do but when you told her that you dont want to sit with her because you are the silent and loney guy or what ever proberly made her feel the same way you felt when you asker her to mover her book bag and she abused you or what ever happened. As i said i dont really know what to do but i think she does like you so if you give it time for her to forget about that incident and then just start off with small things to get close to her again like asking if you can sit with her again.
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