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Should I worry????????? Points to best answer and shit :P?
02-19-2014, 12:46 PM
Post: #1
Should I worry????????? Points to best answer and shit :P?
''Ok, let's start from the beginning, I was visiting my sisters in December and I went on their school one day too check how it was there. And there I met a girl that talked a lot to me even though i'm was a bit shy there. But after the school I got a friend request from her an we have talked on Facebook almost every day since. And now I know that i'm comming over there this weekend which is gonna be weird after we have both said that we love eachother over skype...
But still after she has said that she loves me, and that she thinks i'm cute, but i know that she talks to another guy too, ( I don't know if this is a little stalkerish) but on Snapchat she has a male as the bestfriend and even her real life bestfriend is below this guy and on insta she likes all his photos, even after we began talking she likes more pictures. She has said that he only is her friend, but I don't know if I can believe her...
She says that she really likes me, and that she isn't playing with my feelings, and I want to believe her since she was bullied as a kid, and is a very nice girl, but somewhere in my gut, I feel that she is talking to another guy. And today she became friends with 4-5 new guys, and sends snaps with her and them in it...
But please answer if you can, if i'm being too worried or if I acctually should worry more..
P.S.I don't even know if we are together yet, so she isn't really cheating if she is talking to another guy, but it'll break my heart. And yes I mean it'll break my heart, I know it's unlikely that that she's the one, because I'm very young and I only met her a bit over a month ago, but still I have liked alots of other, and been in a relationship but i've never felt this way about anyone before. So it really hurts me thinking that she maybe is talking to another guy But in the same time, I just want her to be as happy as she could be.
P.P.S she is 14 and i'm 15 if that says anything.

I am really worried that she will just stop talking to me or say that she have found someone else.
And I live a 4-5-6 hour long car drive to her, so I have only met her once and met her friends once.

And I don't know if this have to say anything, but she became a friend with me on facebook because she thought i was cute and to help her friend getting together with me, but she has said that after a while talking to me, she began to like me and now apparently loves me...

I know I am way to obsessed with this, but it has got me thinking you know... and I haven't said to her that she can't have any male friends and I know that she hangs with boys and maybe not actually like me, but she has said that she wants to kiss me when I come over there and she seem to like me, but still I worry about her talking to so many other boys...''

Ok, this was a question I asked a couple of days ago, and in respons, I got that I shouldn't trust her... Is that true? I were this weekend, and we talked and stuff, and on the evening we sat down to watch tv, and we sat in the couch watching tv for 5-6 hours or so. And all the time she cuddled with me. When she had to go, I was supposed to kiss her, but i chickend out. Then later I asked if she wanted me to kiss her (because we can ask eachother anything Tongue) And she said yes, but didn't expect it. The next day se came back, and we cuddled on the couch for hours again, and the same thing happened. But she says it's ok. We aren't in a relationship yet because I said that I should ask her face to face, and she agreed, but I chickened out on that too, but she says it's ok.

Now I'm back in my house and we talk all the time, and we both say that we miss eachother. and i'm coming back in two weeks. But yeah, can I trust her that she likes me, or like the response says, she just want to be popular and therefore she is friends with me.

Thsi may not make sense, but please answer what you think Smile

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02-19-2014, 12:51 PM
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